Now she is permanently conserved. At the temporary hearing the county council said they should sell the house which she owns to pay for her care. I was taking care of her with the blood pressure pill at night and in the morning with her Plavix pill. She wants out of the skilled nursing facility and tried to follow me when I found out I could visit her 7/1/14! By the end of the week I had a restraining order on me and now I can't visit her for three years! She's 87 btw! I talked to an attorney today and she said it is hard to get a restraining order lifted and hard to do anything about the restraining order. Then she photocopied my court papers and ended the interview.
So what is your question?
Your mom was taken from your home, apparently on an emergency basis (since you use the word "pulled"). That's not done without cause. Why did they do that?
You know what I miss reading in your post, frankly? Where it says you love and miss your mom. *shrug*
Restraining orders are not usually issued for someone else's behavior -- that mother would try to follow you.
Why would you miss a meeting as critical as a permanent conservatorship hearing?
Who was appointed as conservator?
Is the attorney looking into this further for you?
It just feels like more of the story is missing than is here.
What is your question for us?
im pretty sure my aunt has been conserved by the state and placed in NH . many reasons . daughter is ill herself , daughter was doing a lousy job -- nearly let aunt die of pneumonia and wouldnt get her an appointment with doc . aunt was having too many falls in independant living .
aps is only concerned for the well being of the elder . something in your home was way off .
It's all about the money. The city inspector made my mother pull a permit to remove a block wall my father had constructed in front the driveway in front of the garage over 30 years ago. She did but didn't do the work until a year later after the permit expired and social workers wanted to know where the money came from with bank statements from my mother's bank account in hand. They think the house is unsafe. I had a big trash dumpster put in front of the house, removed vehicles, and lastly a 20 foot army trailer my father had a surface grinder in from his employer; anything to appease these people. They're punishing us for not doing the work fast enough and the county council said, "Sell the house."
Your story still doesn't make a lot of sense to me, but that's OK, I don't think we're going to offer you the kind of help you're seeking. Good luck in getting advice you find helpful.
City inspector wanted a brick wall removed that had been there for 30 years? That doesn't make sense, either. The city wouldn't have waited 30 years to file a complaint on that wall.
And how did the Social Workers get your mother's bank accounts?
She followed you out of the nursing home? My sister used to bring home dogs and tell my Dad they followed her. He didn't believe her either.
Way too confusing for us, who haven't seen the paperwork. I think you need to accept what the lawyers say.
Your mother's age is no explanation at all.